bertolak ansur...toleration...

this title....makes me wonder...
it is very important to have this value in yourself..or else..u'll lose yourself later...
it is not good to be selfish...but if in a good way...for ur own good...may it is acceptable..

this is a story goes...
2 persons...with different character...
1 is egoist...
1 is independent yet can be fair..
meet each other...
the independent always cannot go along with the stubborn one..
however...the independent knows...they are made for each other....
the independent knows how to negotiate and give some face to them....

this situation..i met a lot in my life...
from my primary school till now...
im glad that my parents taught me to tolerate and be independent....
i dont mean those words to specific person...it is just my opinions..
Allah made us into different persons...different characters..just to complete each other...
LIFE is NOT boring...
LIFE is wonderful....
be positive...then u'll see the beautiful of LIFE....
don't simply judge people ( ain..remember that...don't just know to write and read but understand what did u write k...)
every persons have their own reasons to react like this and like that...(i experienced myself during this 1st week of surgical posting...alhamdulillah thanks Allah coz lead me to this perception....)

me..sometimes...simply judge people...i dont know why...but my woman's mind always make me think negative then the positive follow...itupun after a while...

i realise...NOW...
we..people...have a GOAL to achieve...that's why,some of us react to be "selfish" but then..they NEVER mean it all to be in that way...(^__^) i smile to myself...and say..."ain...be urself...and remember what ur hubby told u that day..."

hubby told me "...kita jgn suka bgantung pada org lain sgt..kena berdikari...tp..ingat jgn sombong...nti org tak nak dekat ngn kita, Allah marah...kita ni hamba yg kerdil....Allah tu lg Maha Besar lg Maha Berkuasa...."

i love u hubby....i love u soooo much...im glad that Allah met us again (^__^) really cant believe that we met again and now, we are husband and wife....

i guess i need to stop for a while...nak smbung wat presentation.. =)

p/s : i feel relieve.....a LOt...alhamdulillah....please blogging again....